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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to our today's guests.
- Park Ki Young! - Park Ki Young!
(Park Ki Young, who has an angelic voice)
- Kim Na Yeong! - Kim Na Yeong!
Hello.
- Musical Actor Kim Ho Young! - Kim Ho Young!
Hello.
Shownu and Ki Hyun of Monsta X!
(Shownu and Ki Hyun of Monsta X)
- Na Yeong, congratulations. - Thank you.
- It's your second baby, right? - Yes.
- When did you give birth to him? - Did she already have two babies?
It's been almost 70 days.
And you're back already?
- He's so cute. - My goodness. He's adorable.
- Is he your second son? - Yes, he is.
- He takes after you. - That's right.
He has strong, handsome facial features for his age.
Oh, my.
- They're adorable. - A baby looks after another baby.
I bet you didn't want to come out for work.
I wanted to come out.
When you raise two sons, you want to go out.
- I know. - Right.
- How old is your daughter? - She's seven years old.
- I see. - Kids at her age are adorable.
(Acting cute)
- She's cute. - She's so pretty.
- She always acts cute. - She takes after her mom.
My daughter is not an ordinary girl.
There's a restaurant we go to often.
I think she was disappointed because the owner didn't recognize me.
- That's understandable. - My daughter said,
"Haven't you watched 'Immortal Songs'?"
"My mom is Singer Park Ki Young."
- My goodness. - She's sociable.
- Yes. - Girls are different from boys.
I got in the elevator with my son.
Someone in the elevator said, "Hello. What are you doing here?"
I said I was there to meet someone.
My son was at the back in the crowd.
But he pushed his way through the crowd and said, "I'm his son."
(I'm Celebrity Shin Dong Yeob's son.)
- He's cute. - I was embarrassed.
- He's adorable. - "I'm his son."
He's so adorable.
It's late autumn now. It's the perfect time for Ki Young's songs.
(Ki Young's voice is perfect for this sentimental season.)
("I Gave You" by Park Ki Young)
(Her powerful voice has deep emotion.)
(Her voice entertained everyone's ears.)
She's good.
He's so popular.
He's hilarious.
- You're flattering me. - He's so talented.
Don't be shy.
Being in a musical and being on a variety show...
have different charms, right?
They're different indeed.
There aren't many actors who like standing in front of people...
even though we perform on stage.
However, I like standing in front of people.
Talking on a variety show like this...
- suits me. - I see.
My goodness. It's perfect for me.
Did you meet any one of us for the first time?
I've never met the members of Monsta X before.
I also met you, Yeong Ja, for the first time.
How is my first impression?
You look...
thinner than I thought.
Then how big did you think she would be?
What did you think of her?
It's just that she always emphasizes her size.
- Also, she has such smooth skin. - She has good skin.
I use the skin care product that you modeled for.
My goodness. Thank you.
Who is it?
(He's peculiar.)
Ho Young is good with words, very talented,
and a great actor.
He also dresses so well.
- He's a fashionista. - He's the talk of the town.
- He looks... - I was surprised too.
- Look at his socks. - Show us.
- Look at his socks. - Don't his clothes look...
- like a stylish surgery uniform? - Oh, my.
(The fashionable professor appears in the operation room.)
Everyone, I'm here to heal your broken hearts.
He never holds back.
(He's so funny.)
Why? Are you embarrassed of him?
No. He sounds like a con man.
He's here because things went well for him.
- If that wasn't the case... - Of course.
(He wouldn't be on TV.)
When the members of Monsta X greeted the audience,
I saw them from behind.
They looked so great.
Dong Yeob doesn't get impressed easily by men's bodies.
They have fit, muscular bodies. They looked fabulous.
People say that Shownu makes all kinds of dance to look sexy.
- I'll dance even before talking. - Yes.
(Show us for now.)
("Baby Shark", the most popular children's song)
- "Baby Shark"? - This is "Baby Shark".
(Warming up his sexiness)
(Swaying)
Oh, my.
My goodness.
Ki Young.
- It's Ki Young's song. - My goodness.
- Look at him. - Oh, my gosh.
- My goodness. - Look at him.
(He expresses the sorrow of love with his whole body.)
Don't do that.
Oh, my.
It's Ki Young's song, "Last Love".
- My goodness. - But he's very good.
(You're amazing.)
He must have wondered, "What am I doing right now?"
Right.
You released a new song. Let us hear it.
Please introduce your new song.
(This is great!)
("Shoot Out" by Monsta X)
(It is not good for the heart...)
(to watch their smooth and charismatic moves.)
Monsta X!
(You're fantastic.)
We have three worries today as usual.
Let's look at the keywords.
- "Don't Even Dream of It". - "Hulk in the Family".
"Weird Romance".
Hello. My biggest wish is to sleep as much as I want.
I'm a wife in my 30s.
At 10pm every day...
(What should I do?)
What?
(What am I supposed to do?)
(Looking at...)
(the first snow...)
(of the year)
What are you doing right now?
Try to sing better.
I'm just trying to depict the husband's character.
- You're depicting his character. - I'm doing it on purpose.
- Her husband sings like that? - Yes.
My husband... Gosh, I'm blushing.
- Are my ears red? - Yes.
They are. They're so red.
He must be embarrassed.
I feel so shy whenever I have to sing.
My husband sings all kinds of songs every night.
"Honey, let's go to bed."
"It's past midnight."
(Like my heart got a burn)
(Like I got a cut from tears)
"What about this?"
(Na Yeong holds back her laughter.)
(Shaky eyes)
Even at restaurants, my husband...
- Can you play the husband? - No.
- No. - Come here.
Come here.
Dong Yeob is so bad at these things.
You should leave the show.
(Let me take his place.)
"If it's okay,"
"will you let me sing a song?"
- At a restaurant. - Which song is it?
(Like my heart got a burn)
(Like I got a cut from tears)
I can't take it anymore.
Do you know what's worse? "I can't go on like this."
"I think I want to become a singer."
(He wants to become a singer?)
Our daughter is only three years old.
But my husband insists on becoming a singer.
Please help my husband wake up from his absurd dream.
- What do you think? - Look at Ki Young.
I'm so shocked.
- She's shocked. - Right?
I'm shocked that they have a three-year-old daughter.
If he was good enough to become a singer,
he would be one already.
- Right. - I don't think...
it's impossible.
- Really? - You think it's possible?
It's because he's not married. He doesn't realize how serious it is.
- Right. - Ki Hyun, what do you think?
I disapprove.
- He has a family to support. - Exactly.
He should put his family first.
Please come out!
(Who is worried about her husband who wants to become a singer?)
(Jo Hye Rim)
- Oh, my. - Oh, my.
- Be careful. - Three men are helping her.
Ho Young, I think you can sit down.
- Worry about yourself. - Maybe I should.
(Embarrassed)
Does your husband seriously want to become a singer?
It was his dream even before we got married.
(I see.)
When we were dating, we went to a karaoke bar seven times a week.
- All week? - 7 times a week?
- That's every day. - That's every day.
He even auditioned for "Superstar K"...
- and "K-pop Star". - Really?
Then he must have been on TV.
No. He got eliminated in the first stage.
Rather than regretting it later,
I think he should become a singer as soon as possible.
So you don't think it's a worry.
Why is it a worry?
Without having lived with him,
you wouldn't understand. Every night,
he sings until midnight, 1am,
or sometimes even until 2am.
First, he sits me down.
He won't let me go into the room until he's done.
My goodness.
What about your kid?
After our kid goes to bed.
- Do you work? - Yes.
- She works too. - She works too.
What does your husband do for a living?
He works at a factory.
He works at a furniture factory.
If he sings at home,
- doesn't it bother your neighbors? - It must.
Yes. Once, our next-door neighbor came and complained.
"It's past 11pm. What are you doing?"
My husband didn't come out and apologize.
I had to deal with it.
- You did? - Yes.
- By the way... - It's too noisy.
Even if you thought, "Why is he singing at this hour",
if he was really good...
(You'd just sing along.)
- You enjoy listening to it. - You'd sing along.
- If he was really good. - He's just...
a little bit better than most people. A tiny bit better.
- He's a tiny bit better? - He's a tiny bit better?
If he went to a karaoke bar seven times a week,
he should be better than most people.
- He must have improved. - That's right.
You said he sits you down and makes you listen to him sing.
How does he react if you make a negative comment?
He thinks I look down on him.
He says, "I'm at least better than you."
But what's the point?
Being better than me is not enough.
Why does he compare himself to you?
She's never even said she wants to become a singer.
"I'm better than you!"
"So I'm going to become a singer."
Are you here because you just want him...
to stop singing?
My husband is very excited about being on Hello.
Hoping it'd lead to other opportunities?
- He's excited. - If someone thinks he's ready...
and wants to offer him a contract,
he'll quit his job at the factory...
- and start auditioning. - My goodness.
- But... - Can we be honest?
- Yes. - Can we say what we really think?
The audience will give a verdict at the end, right?
- I ask you to be really honest. - All right.
We'll be honest.
Let's meet her husband who sings every day...
and dreams of becoming a singer. Hello.
Hello.
(Who is her husband who dreams of becoming a singer?)
All right. Do you understand why your wife is worried?
I don't understand at all.
- What do you not understand? - We...
only live once.
To live my life fully, I want to sing.
When you heard that your wife sent a letter to this show,
did you think it could be your chance?
Of course.
I would never miss this opportunity.
But you've already auditioned for a couple of shows,
and the results were not good.
How did you feel?
I thought it went well.
I was sure it went well.
But they never called back.
- I was disappointed. - But you must have heard...
the top three sing.
- Yes. - Do you think...
you could sing as well as them?
I didn't compare myself to those who were in the top,
but I didn't think that I was so bad in comparison to the others.
He must sing quite well.
Our viewers and audience must be...
dying to...
- hear him sing. - That's right.
- I'm so curious. - But...
we have to shoot for a while first.
Please wait just a little longer.
Please don't change the channel...
and stay tuned. Thank you.
When did you start dreaming of becoming a singer?
I'm not sure.
Back in 11th grade, Min Kyung Hoon debuted...
- as a member of Buzz. - Min Kyung Hoon.
He was an idol for all men.
He was handsome too. I looked up to him so much.
I thought he was incredible.
And you wanted to become incredible too?
- Like him? - You only live once.
This is your only life.
(All right.)
Do you seriously...
want to quit your job...
and devote yourself to singing?
If I do become a singer,
- I'd devote myself. - What if you don't?
While maintaining my job, I'll continue to try.
- You'll continue to try? - Yes.
I think anything is possible as long as you work hard.
As long as you work hard?
Having a dream is fine,
but you shouldn't cause your family trouble.
Because you practice at night, your wife can't sleep well.
I come home around 10pm.
That's the only time I have.
I still don't understand.
Do you have to sing in front of your wife?
- I have to. - Why?
I want her approval.
I want my wife to be on my side.
But when I sing, she ignores it.
When someone sings, you expect to feel something.
You expect it to make you feel happy or something.
But it doesn't make me feel anything.
You'd listen to other singers,
but you don't want to listen to your husband sing.
A neighbor complained too?
To be honest, I feel bad. I'm a human too.
I do feel bad. But when I drink...
and listen to music, I can't help but sing along.
I start singing while wearing earphones.
Then your voice becomes very loud, right?
While wearing earphones, your voice becomes loud.
It becomes very loud. So a neighbor complained.
I got scared and apologized.
- You made your wife apologize. - You didn't apologize yourself.
You made your wife apologize, right?
I'm the one who sang, but I couldn't be bothered.
You couldn't be bothered?
Honestly, that's... You're a coward.
- Her husband... - Don't you lose your voice then?
- My voice? - Doesn't it hurt?
Unlike the average person, I have extra tonsils.
- When I was little... - You have two tonsils?
Yes, I do.
- Is that possible? - I was born like this.
- Is that possible? - I don't know.
- Is it... - I've never heard of it before.
- I meant uvulas. - Is it like you buy ramyeon,
and you find two pieces of dried seaweed?
- I don't understand... - I have...
two uvulas unlike normal people.
- Did you have it examined? - Yes, I did.
- It's unusual. - The doctor said I'm healthy.
I don't need any surgery either.
Thanks to that, when I sing...
Even if I sing for 8 hours, my voice doesn't get hoarse.
- I've never heard of it. - Me neither.
I've never heard of anything like this.
Why don't you get a job at a live bar,
so you can sing and make money?
That's a good idea. I'll think about it.
(My head hurts.)
- You resolved the problem. - He came up with a solution.
- We have a solution. - That's right.
Gosh. I'm dying to hear him sing.
- Me too. - Has your wife...
done anything to make you upset?
My husband? I mean, my wife?
- Have you been upset? - She asked you.
- Keep it together. - He must be nervous.
She made me upset so many times. She looked down on me.
How was she before you two got married?
- I bet she... - She was different from now.
Did she compliment you?
Back then, we went to karaoke bars...
and had drinks together.
But she changed completely after we got married.
(Upset and disappointed)
You don't have to encourage him to become a singer,
but can't you compliment him...
and enjoy singing with him?
I think he's obsessed with attention.
You do?
- He's kind of attention seeker. - Is he always seeking attention?
He's an attention seeker.
Should I describe him like that?
He's an attention seeker.
He leaves for work early in the morning.
At around 6:30am.
He wakes up an hour earlier to do his hair...
- and makeup. - He likes to dress up.
He doesn't go out until he matches clothes perfectly.
When he goes out,
he doesn't leave home if his clothes don't go well with his shoes.
- He doesn't leave home? - That's right.
When we go out together, he always leaves our baby to me,
and goes around by himself.
When he comes back to us, he says,
"I think that woman is looking at me."
"Maybe she's interested in me."
He once said a girl asked him if he was married,
and he said yes.
Then the girl said, "Really? That's a shame."
He tells me things like this, but it doesn't...
sound realistic to me.
- What kind of woman asks... - Exactly.
- a stranger if he's married? - Exactly.
- That's ridiculous. - "Are you married?"
Even if it's true,
- he shouldn't have told his wife. - He shouldn't have.
I think you hear things too.
I do hear things.
Has something like that actually happened?
When I was in 11th grade,
I was told that I looked like Brian of FLY TO THE SKY...
Kim Sang Hyuk, and Jay Park.
(He looks a little like them.)
- He looks a bit like Sang Hyuk too. - Our staff...
Stay still for a while.
- Look. - They look alike.
His lips are shaking so much. Oh, no.
He looks like Sang Hyuk too.
And Jay Park.
- Your husband actually has... - He's handsome.
- similar facial features. - I was wrong.
I shouldn't have cut my hair.
All right. We get it.
(Please stop it.)
Do you care about your looks so much because people say...
that you look like those celebrities?
And is that why you don't go out if you don't like your looks?
I never leave home when I don't look good.
Do you not even go to work?
I've skipped work before too.
(They can't believe their ears.)
(That's absolutely absurd.)
Do you think people look at you...
when you walk on the streets?
Yes, I do.
Did some girls look at you in this studio as well?
Yes, a few did.
- Really? - Yes.
Why do you think they look at you?
I think they find me cute.
- My goodness. - I can't believe him.
- He's delusional. - He has a problem.
- He has a serious problem. - No.
I don't criticize you for your confidence and obsession with looks.
But you skip work when you don't like your clothes...
and behave impulsively like that...
- That's irresponsible. - is a problem.
That's right.
(He's right.)
Hye Rim's work colleague is sitting next to him.
Hello.
- Hello. - It's nice to meet you. Welcome.
Did you know that she was worried about her husband?
- Yes. I have a child too. - I see.
I put my baby to sleep at 8:30pm no matter what.
But in her case, her husband...
sings until late at night,
so her baby got used to that and can't sleep well at night.
- Her baby keeps waking up. - Her baby sleeps after midnight.
I can't even imagine that.
However, she's talking about the problem, but he looks...
so proud as if he's saying, "Yes. My baby goes to bed after midnight."
Aren't you feeling bad when you hear that?
Children need to go to bed early.
It can hinder her growth.
Our daughter goes to bed later than other kids.
It could be because of you.
It's not that I don't tuck her in. She stays up late.
- You sing at night. - How can she sleep when you sing?
- Our living room is quite small. - I see.
So I sing quietly.
- But your neighbor complained. - Your neighbor complained.
We live in a very small house.
I think that's why they can hear me from there.
Are you saying it's because your house is small?
- Yes. - How could your child to sleep...
- when even your neighbor can't? - How would she feel?
She needs to sleep. Do you think it's her fault?
She stays up late. So it's her fault.
She doesn't go to sleep when we tuck her in.
(He's unbelievable.)
(That's shocking.)
(There's no sense in talking to him.)
Have you ever heard him sing?
We're curious about his singing ability.
As a matter of fact,
I studied music when I was younger.
- Then you must... - And there's a musical actor...
in my family.
- That's great. - So...
However, objectively speaking...
(How could his singing ability be?)
(Giggling)
I'm so curious.
- Why is she laughing? - Objectively speaking,
when he sings, he uses unnecessary techniques.
(Vocalizing)
His singing is fit for karaoke bars.
Also, he tries to imitate singing styles...
of some R and B singers.
(This is the reality. Wake up!)
Have you ever made an effort...
to become a singer?
I'm planning to start busking...
next June.
That's a long time from now.
I can't start it this year.
- Why? - Is it because it's too cold?
Money. Money is the problem.
We have a child, you know.
- You have to make money. - Yes.
He asked me to buy him a mic and a speaker, so I looked into it.
It turned out they cost about 1,500 dollars.
- A mic and a speaker? - Yes.
He said he'll start his own internet broadcast if we can't afford them.
But a computer alone costs 3,000 dollars.
In fact, we can't afford...
any of those things.
We spend about 600 dollars per month for our daughter.
And my husband spends over 700 dollars a month.
He goes to a karaoke bar 2 or 3 times a week.
It costs him 30 dollars for a room at a karaoke bar,
and if he drinks liquor, he spends 70 dollars.
- Can they sell alcohol? - He drinks liquor?
Yes, he drinks too.
He goes to places where he can drink.
He drinks and sings.
The money he spends per month on karaoke bars and drinks...
is a little more than 300 dollars.
- Why do you drink at a karaoke bar? - For one time?
- Per month. - My goodness.
I like drinking very much.
- I like drinking while singing. - Then why did you deny it?
I go to coin karaoke as well,
but the room is too small.
It's not fun to sing in there.
He doesn't like being in a small space.
Do you really have to buy expensive equipment...
when you have financial problems?
I know. However, I'm sorry to say this,
but I need to buy it to start busking.
Deep down, I know...
that I'm pathetic. It's not like I don't know that.
But when I become successful, I'll make it all up to her.
What worries me...
We haven't heard you sing, right?
If you sing in front of us, and many of us say...
that you don't seem good enough to become a singer,
how will you take the criticism?
Will you admit it and give up on your dream?
I'll give up if I fail my audition at two agencies.
- Two agencies? - Yes.
- Which ones? - SG WANNABE...
and Min Kyung Hoon's agencies.
- I see. - He made a specific plan.
All right. We can't drag it on any longer.
- Right. We waited so long. - Yes.
- It's an old-fashioned way. - I'm running out of energy.
We shouldn't drag it on anymore.
We'll bring him out on stage now.
(Please come up on stage.)
(He goes to the stage with confidence.)
Please come this way.
What song will you sing for us?
(What song will he sing today?)
Yim Jae Beom's "Love... That Guy".
(It's a sentimental song sung with a heart wrenching voice.)
(How well could he sing?)
Play the music please.
(I can't believe I have to hear this again.)
Everyone, please evaluate him objectively.
(Let's listen carefully.)
(Nervous)
(She blocks her ears.)
(I always love someone who doesn't love me back)
(And I think of old memories alone)
(What?)
(I'm so embarrassed.)
(He sings the words as if he's whispering.)
(Holding back laughter)
(Nevertheless, he's focusing on singing.)
(I always)
(I always end up feeling empty)
(They're holding back their laughter.)
(I can't watch this.)
Can you sing the words more clearly?
(He sings the words clearly.)
(I always stumble, but I pretend I'm fine)
(Patience)
(It's a suffocating performance.)
(I can't laugh.)
I wave my hands
(I love you)
No matter how much I call you
(He's very serious.)
(Ki Young listens very attentively.)
(He tries to stay calm.)
I return to where I came from
(He sings with a nasal voice.)
(I love you)
(Ki Young was listening objectively.)
(But she gives up.)
(Everyone became embarrassed at his "I love you".)
(The higher the pitch the more his voice quivers.)
She just left
(Quivering)
(I am sorry.)
(He tries his best until the end.)
She leaves
(Thank you.)
Please take a seat.
- Okay. - He's not too terrible.
- That's not it. - Of course not.
He's just ordinary. His song is okay to listen to.
I think he's slightly better than ordinary people.
- He's not terrible. - It's...
I honestly...
(He's excited.)
I almost threw my pillow at him.
When I heard him sing...
(It's a refreshing comment.)
My goodness.
You must know it well too.
You've listened to yourself.
You know how I feel, don't you?
- He doesn't seem to know. - I don't know.
But you are not good enough to suddenly...
- become a singer. - Right.
- Right. - It's...
Let's ask for their opinions. Can you give your opinions?
You want to hear their opinions, right?
Yes, I want to hear them.
- Do you mean that? - Then...
If you think he's got potential as a singer,
please press the button.
- Please be very objective. - Does he have potential?
Yes. Please press the button.
Let's see.
(Who is it?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
(We can hear a few clicks.)
- That's it. - Stop.
Did you vote for him to be nice?
No. They might have thought he had the potential.
- Maybe they thought he was good. - Yes.
How many votes do you think you got?
About 50 votes?
You think that even after hearing that sound?
(Laughing)
I think his ears are in bad shape.
You think you got 50 votes. 50 votes out of 200.
- Yes. - Right.
"Don't Even Dream of It". Let's see how many you got.
The result already is out.
I simply read the title.
Don't be too shocked.
Let's find out how many votes he got.
How many votes did he get?
(She's curious.)
(Don't Even Dream of It!)
- I see. - Okay.
- Yes. - I got four votes. That's good.
Right.
- That's what frustrates his wife. - He's very optimistic.
Don't you want to accept the reality that you can't be a singer?
That thought doesn't cross my mind yet.
I sang much worse than I usually do.
I was too nervous.
- Right. But singers... - Yes.
audition in a setting like this, and they only sing...
- in a setting like this. - Right.
I will try.
Don't you feel sorry?
Don't you feel sorry saying that you're good enough to be a singer?
- You think of it as something easy. - I am sorry...
that she has to deal with me. I am sorry.
But I could suddenly become successful.
What do you mean you can suddenly become successful?
I might suddenly sing well like a miracle.
In my opinion, I don't think that will happen.
Can someone who doesn't run well suddenly...
- That can't happen. - finish the race in nine seconds?
Does it make sense?
- It doesn't, does it? - It doesn't.
It's the same story.
If you want an objective comment, I can give it to you.
But are you willing to listen to my comment?
- Yes, I will listen. - Will you really?
You have no potential.
Your voice tone...
- is not bad. - You are so mean, Ki Young.
I got out of it.
You clearly don't have the potential.
The most important thing is this.
Every singer must have strong fundamentals.
You don't have fundamentals.
You don't.
Do you have to achieve your dream?
- Anyone can have a dream. - Right.
Do you know what your wife's dream is?
- Dream? - Yes.
She doesn't have a dream.
- I have a dream too. - She...
The more we talk to him,
the more tired I get.
It's wearing me out.
- I am really tired too. - Right?
- It's tiring, isn't it? - It is.
- It must've been very tough. - If you stay with him...
- for 365 days, - I know.
- It must've been very hard for her. - It's really tiring.
- She makes you really tired. - Yes.
- How tough would it have been? - Is this worse than giving birth?
This is much tougher than postpartum care.
It's tougher.
- Her face became swollen. - I am really tired.
(I live with that man.)
As a husband and as a father,
he doesn't spend much time with the family, does he?
I finish work around 8pm.
When I get home, I have to clean and bathe the child.
Whenever he comes home,
he plays music on his phone and listens to it.
And this made me wonder if he was really a father.
He changed the baby's diaper less than five times.
He said he hates the smell.
He blocked his nose and changed it about twice.
That makes me wonder if he's really the father of the child.
- Those things make me think that. - Right.
I was born with a weak stomach.
I am sorry to my daughter.
But I really can't stand the smell of poop.
- All right. - Right.
Do you usually fight a lot?
We fight every day.
- Every day? - It's hard to talk to him.
Does he yell at you or say mean things to you?
Sometimes he says mean things to me.
- He curses at you. - He curses at you?
- At his wife? - Even in the presence of the baby.
In front of the baby?
- Why do you do that? - I feel comfortable with her.
- That's why you swear at her? - That's why you swear?
When we fight,
I lose my temper.
If I drink soju outside,
I might cause trouble.
You can't swear at strangers because you're not comfortable with them.
- Do you only snap at her? - I only do that to my wife.
I don't think it's something you can talk confidently about.
- I know. - It seems like you think it's okay.
- It's very strange. - He's careful right now...
because we are on TV. We once had a really big fight...
in the presence of our baby. The cops showed up at our home.
Actually, she came to us...
with a desperation.
We are undergoing an adjustment period for divorce.
The verdict will be given next January.
The toughest thing for me...
is that I can't talk to him.
- That's the toughest. - Yes.
You are going through this process,
- and in January of next year... - It will be decided on January 3.
Is there a reason why you sent us a letter here...
despite the fact that you are going through this?
It's because of my daughter.
I thought about this.
Right now, she can't understand anything.
But when she enters school, kids might say,
"I heard you don't have a father." "You have a stepfather."
Just thinking about her hearing those things break my heart.
By the way, she mentioned...
- A stepfather. - You want to remarry.
- A stepfather. - I...
- I thought about that too. - I'm sorry. I know it's serious.
- It might cause a misunderstanding. - No.
She was just giving an example for her daughter.
She must get all kinds of thoughts.
I didn't want to come out here.
But I thought we would end up finalizing our divorced...
if I don't do anything.
- You can't talk at all. - Right.
Why do you think your wife brought you here?
- What do you think the reason is? - I don't know what she's thinking.
I don't know what she's thinking.
(No way!)
Right. So...
Your wife...
wants to repair your relationship...
for the sake of your daughter.
She wants to give way to each other.
It seems like her coming here is a gesture of...
- reconciliation. - Right.
We have a daughter. Honestly,
when we separated, I thought of my daughter every day.
She appeared in my dream.
- I worried about my daughter. - We were separated...
during the adjustment period.
- You lived separately at that time. - Yes. we did.
For our daughter,
if we can work things out... If we don't show up at the court,
we won't be divorced.
What do you think you need to do for that to happen?
- We have to try hard. - The most important thing...
is to admit your faults.
Do you think you've done anything wrong?
I've done things wrong. I've done many wrong things.
Do you want to live with your wife and daughter?
- Yes. I really do. - Really?
What should you do then?
We need to work hard for it.
- What should you do? - What should you do?
I should stop singing too much.
- I should drink less. - What else?
- I should look after the baby. - You know everything.
He knows everything.
It's worse that he didn't do it while knowing it.
It seems like you and your wife feel the same way.
However, you and your wife express love in different ways.
- Also, at home, - Drinking.
you should refrain from drinking every day...
and singing in front of your wife late at night.
I think I can stop drinking.
What can't you stop?
- Singing. - Singing?
- Don't sing at home. - Even when I sing,
I won't sing like I did in the past.
I will go to a karaoke bar once a week.
That's good.
You know what you need to do.
He doesn't do what he needs to do.
- You should trust him once more. - He will change his words at home.
I will change my ways.
(I will change my ways.)
Say what you want to say to your husband.
To be honest, I am here with our daughter.
She is in the waiting room.
You should know that it takes a lot of effort...
to show people how much I am suffering.
- That's right. - It's embarrassing.
You gathered up your courage.
I hope that through this experience,
you'll keep the promises that you've made.
Drink one bottle of alcohol a day.
Don't go to a karaoke bar...
- too often. - One bottle a day is a lot.
She is setting a realistic goal for her husband.
You really need to think about our financial situation.
I don't show it,
but I struggle every day at work.
I really hope you will do these things.
Can you keep your promises?
I will make an effort.
- Tell your wife. - Hye Rim, I will make an effort.
In return...
In return,
let me continue to sing as a hobby.
Let me have that one thing.
(He only thinks about himself.)
Do you think it's a worry?
I doubt anyone would have a different opinion.
- You think it's a worry. - Press the button.
I also think it's a worry.
(Ho Young thinks it's a worry.)
- I also think it's a worry. - Shownu.
- Ki Hyun. - I also think it's a worry.
He should focus on his family, not singing.
- Na Yeong. - It's a big worry.
It's a big worry.
Will the other worries be this bad?
- It might be. - Then I want to go home.
- They could improve. - Okay.
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Please say a few words to your wife and daughter.
How do you usually address her? Honey? Darling?
- Pangpang. - Bangmang?
- Pangpang. - Pangpang.
Call her so-and-so's mom.
Call her Pangpang.
- My goodness. - Pangpang!
Let's live diligently with our daughter.
I feel bad that she will see this when she grows up.
I didn't know things were this bad.
- Do you feel bad? - Yes.
I love you.
(I love you.)
I wonder how many votes this worry got.
Show us the result.
"Don't Even Dream of It".
(The result)
It got over 100 votes.
Out of 200, how many votes did it get?
190 votes?
(How many votes did it get?)
164 votes.
(164 votes)
The title is "Hulk in the Family".
We need someone to play the son.
- Ho Young, you are an actor. - Yes.
- Please come here and help me. - Shall I go over there?
I would do a better job of playing the mom.
Then I will play the son.
- Okay. - All right.
(They are ridiculous.)
Hello, I am a housewife in her 50s who lives in Seoul.
I have a worry these days.
It involves my 28-year-old son.
When he was little,
he made me scorched rice soup whenever I was sick.
But he changed so much.
(How did he change?)
"Why didn't you finish your food? You should finish it."
"I don't want it."
"Why not?"
"Gosh, this is annoying. I said I don't want to eat!"
(Shouting)
He throws the spoon when he get annoyed.
"What are you doing? Wash up before you go to bed."
"For goodness' sake!"
"I can take care of myself. Don't be so annoying."
(Shouting and kicking)
When he gets angry,
he kicks the door as if he wants to break it.
I don't know why he is so short-tempered and violent.
I miss my good-natured son.
Please change my son back to how he was.
(Please change my son back to how he was.)
- You are a good actor. - I am, right?
Yes.
(I am a good actor.)
Pubescent boys act that way,
- not a 28-year-old man. - That's right.
When I was little,
I got along with my friend's moms.
My friend's mom would call me.
"My son is being problematic." Then I would go to my friend...
- and go, - You were like that.
"What is wrong with you? I'm coming in." I was like that.
However, when I get stressed out...
from work, I come home...
- the smallest thing sets me off. - That's right.
When my mom tells me to eat,
I sometimes go, "I will eat later!"
How about you, Shownu? Have you ever turned into Hulk?
When my mom tells me to eat, I get angry.
- Why do you get angry? - Why do you get angry?
- I don't know why. - There is no reason.
I just answered loudly.
- "Shownu, come and eat!" - "Okay!"
- That startled me. - You surprised me.
"Come and eat."
- "Okay!" I just did that. - It sounds like...
you were obeying her in a loud way.
Let's meet the person who sent us the worry.
Since she has a back problem,
we will escort her to the stage.
Please come on out.
(Who is worried about her Hulk-like son?)
(Kim Ok Ja)
(It's good to have you here.)
- My goodness. - Find a comfortable position.
- Stretch out your legs. - That would be better.
Stretch out your legs. It's okay.
Everyone, stretch out your legs.
- All right. - So that she doesn't look strange,
- stretch out your legs. - Stretch out your legs.
Your son is your biggest worry.
Yes. As if he is going through puberty,
he gets angry at the smallest things...
and becomes violent.
Did it start when the puberty hit?
No, he didn't have a problem when the puberty hit.
He didn't have a problem.
He was the nicest child.
He never got mad.
I get sick quite often, and whenever I was sick,
he made me scorched rice soup.
It's the best for the aching heart.
When I ran into him with groceries in my hands,
he said, "I will carry them since I am strong."
- He carried them. - How sweet.
He always got the elevator to the first floor for me.
- How thoughtful! - He was incredibly considerate.
He was like a daughter to me.
Doesn't he do those things now?
Doesn't get the elevator for you?
Does he press all the buttons?
(Did he become mischievous later in life?)
He doesn't listen or help me anymore.
How violent is he...
that you send us a worry?
When I talk to him, he shuts his mouth.
When I repeat myself, he throws the spoon on the table.
(When she repeats herself, he throws the spoon on the table.)
He goes into his room and kicks the door.
He was such a sweet kid, but he suddenly changed.
Since when did he show those behaviors?
He suddenly transformed after returning from the army.
- After returning from the army? - He transformed right away.
Did something happen in the army?
If that's the case...
Maybe he should have stayed in the army.
Originally...
(Why is my son acting this way?)
What's your son's name?
- His name is Yoo Chang Dae. - Call him.
My wonderful son, Chang Dae.
Hello.
(Who is the angry son?)
Your mom is worried about...
your sudden transformation. Do you understand her worry?
I understand some of it.
- You don't understand all of it. - No.
We fought recently.
- You and your mom? - Yes.
- You didn't make up. - No.
That must be why she is in a startled state.
Right now, seeing her is enough...
to make me angry.
- Really? - Why?
(What did I do wrong?)
- Just a bit. - How does it feel to see your son?
- I feel happy. - The two of you had a fight.
I still feel happy.
(I feel bad for her.)
[VIU Ver] E385 Hello Counselor "Treat Your Loved Ones Well" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
What was the recent fight about? The two of you didn't make up yet.
While it wasn't directed at him,
I showed my anger when he was eating.
You have a beautiful voice...
and graceful manners.
- I don't think you would do that. - I can't imagine it.
I know. Chang Dae, why was she angry?
I was eating when she went,
"For goodness' sake."
Is that all?
"For goodness' sake. I can't do this right."
I couldn't do something on my cell phone.
"I can't do this right. For goodness' sake!" She said that.
When I have a meal,
I always leave behind one bite.
That day,
she told me to finish my meal.
She told me to eat the last spoonful.
- It doesn't give you an excuse... - Seriously.
to kick the door.
I know I was wrong to do that.
The anger that had built up...
inside me exploded.
You weren't like that before you went to the army.
Did you have a change of heart after your military service?
Did something happen?
Nothing happened in the army.
I simply had a change in my values.
I hate it...
when I give or receive a damage.
I think that it's irrational.
- Since he was young... - Irrational? What was irrational?
(You mean me?)
(Is this literature class?)
After I eat, I put water in the dishwashing basin.
I try to be generous and fill up more than half of the basin.
Then my mom would tell me to fill it up all the way...
because that makes it easier to wash the dishes.
It's hard to wash if rice sticks to a plate and dries.
Your mother is right about that.
- Those things... - Does it upset you?
When she tells me those things, she yells at me.
It sounds like...
- you nag at him quite a lot. - She nags at him.
Do you tend to nag at him?
Yes. I nag at him a lot. And 80 percent of the time,
I nag at him to wash himself.
- Wash himself? - Wash himself?
- Does he not like washing himself? - Is he dirty?
Does he not wash himself? How bad is he?
Every morning, I tell him to brush his teeth and to wash up.
Even in the middle of summer,
sometimes he doesn't wash up for 2 to 3 days.
What she says to a 28-year-old son...
is exactly the same as what I say to my 28-month-old son.
He doesn't like to wash. He doesn't like to wear clothes.
If this will continue for 28 years, I quit.
How can you quit?
- What will you do? - It will be too tough.
I resign from being your mother.
- It's really tough. - He will have to wash himself.
- You are going to resign. - Yes.
It's not that I don't wash up.
I am a nurse's aide.
I face patients a lot.
So it's important to be clean.
- It's important. - It's important to be clean.
When I come home from work, I feel so tired.
- You are too lazy to take shower. - I am tired.
If the weather is chilly or if I don't sweat a lot,
- I don't see the need... - You don't see the need.
to take shower.
So I remember not taking shower for 2 to 3 days.
- 2 to 3 days. - Yes. In the summer.
- You didn't take shower? - Was that when you were working?
No, on my days off.
- When you didn't have work. - When you didn't have work.
- Then it's fine not to take shower. - He's...
28 years old now.
Even if you feel uncomfortable watching him,
why can't you just let him take care of himself?
I want to do that.
But he doesn't do anything unless I help him.
There are times when he doesn't eat a single meal all day.
One day, on a day he only had one meal...
I prepared a food for the whole family, but he ate everything.
In just a year, he gained 20kg.
(In a year, he gained 20kg.)
What frustrates you the most?
It's running away from home whenever something happens.
- He runs away from home? - He runs away from home?
One day, he ran away from home.
He left to go to work, but he went out of reach.
I reported it to the police,
and he was at an internet cafe.
How long was he out of reach for?
About a week.
- That's long. - That's very long.
- That's why she went to the police. - Yes.
Your home should be...
a place to rest for everyone.
- Is it her nagging? - Yes. She nags a lot,
and she says the things that I don't want to hear.
She says those sometimes.
- What are those? - I am very curious.
She once promised that she wouldn't keep talking...
about what I have done wrong in the past.
But she keeps talking about it.
And it drives me mad.
That has caused him to become violent.
Are you talking about when he broke the door?
No, he had a physical fight with me.
- A physical fight? - A physical fight?
How bad was it?
When I nagged at him,
he told me not to nag at him. But he wouldn't listen to me,
so I had to nag at him again. So we both got upset...
and got into a physical fight. He's a big boy,
and I am weak because of my bad back.
He lightly pushed me, and I fell.
I went to the hospital and found out that my ribs were fractured.
- My goodness. - They were fractured.
Why would your mother's nagging drive you so mad?
Are they that hard to bear?
My mom looks really...
relaxed and generous right now.
- Is she faking it then? - Yes.
(Does he mean she's faking it?)
I think she's wearing a mask.
(It's a shocking.)
That made me feel distant from her.
I've been dissatisfied...
since I was very young.
- Since you were very young? - Is it not a recent thing?
A lot of things she said when I was in elementary...
and middle school hurt me.
- What your mom said? - At the time,
she wasn't gentle like this.
She did those things to me, so I still have grudges.
I am curious. You and your mother...
remember the past differently.
- You think he was a good son. - He was a good boy.
But your son is saying he wasn't satisfied even as a young boy,
- but he just didn't say it. - It was tough for him.
Did she not know that something was wrong?
- I don't know. - Nobody here knows.
Please tell us about it.
When I was in third year of middle school,
my family got scammed.
Yes. So we incurred debts.
(They got scammed and incurred debts.)
I am sure my mom and dad felt bad...
because their attempt to make things better...
ended up causing more heartache and stress for the family.
But I tried my best on my own.
I tried not to be a burden.
Instead of asking for money, I did part-time jobs...
and paid for my own things until I graduated high school.
(He never got money from his parents until he graduated high school.)
I tried hard, but I only got...
yelled at and nagged at in return.
That made me really sad.
(He's been hiding it from his parents.)
Did you know that your son was...
struggling for such reason?
No. I didn't know.
He was such a good boy.
He was such a considerate boy.
I had no idea that he was hurt at such early age.
After hearing everything, I can guess...
what she is like.
Nevertheless, you sometimes lose your temper.
Doesn't it mean you have anger management problems?
I don't become violent whenever I become upset.
After holding it in for a while, I explode.
I don't think that I have...
anger management problems.
But you have to know this.
Rather than holding it in and letting it explode,
- you should talk to her... - Tell her when you're upset.
every time you are upset.
(I know.)
His father is here too. Let's see what he thinks about this.
Let's meet him.
In my opinion, I hope that...
my son will become calmer.
I think it's wrong for the son...
to talk back at his mother...
because she nags at him.
Why do you think your son keeps snapping at her?
I think it's because my mother, I mean his mother,
my wife keeps nagging him...
about many things.
He's old enough to understand things when you say it once.
But she keeps repeating it.
That's why he doesn't want to listen to it.
- It's an expert's terminology. - Anyway, that's why.
They got into a physical fight. Did you act as a mediator?
I did. I often did.
What did you say to your son?
I told him what was wrong.
I told him to apologize for the wrong things he did.
- What did you tell your wife? - I told him many times.
- How about to your wife? - What?
I... I didn't get to say that to her.
I think he is scared of his wife.
It looks like you are conscious of your wife.
No, I am not conscious of her. Never.
Do you and your wife have no conflict?
- He refers to her in honorifics. - Do you two have conflicts?
We don't have any conflicts.
- Are you not conscious of her? - I am not.
You can't even look at her in the eye though.
That's not it.
You keep looking this way. You're looking at Tae Gyun.
It's because he's speaking to me.
Do you think...
your son and your wife have similar personalities?
Yes. I think so.
- That's why they clash. - Yes. I think so.
My wife and my son...
- You really respect your wife. - They're similar.
My wife and my son...
(I told you not to show it.)
- My wife and my son... - My goodness.
have the same temperament.
That's why they...
- end up getting into a fight. - They clash.
I will ask you once again. Are you really not scared of your wife?
I am not. I am really not.
He doesn't.
- But he... - He sounds scared.
Let's ask the son.
Do you think what your mom does is irrational?
Do you think her actions are irrational?
You kept saying you can't stand irrationality.
I still bear a lot of grudges about the things...
that happened when I was young.
I get really upset...
when my mom says...
- harsh things to me. - What were those things?
She asked what kind of harsh things she has said to you.
What did she say to you?
She tries not to do that now.
- But when I come home late, - When you come home late.
she tells me, "Move out if you will do that."
"I don't need a son like you."
I actually got kicked out of the house...
and stayed out for 6 to 7 hours.
How old were you then?
That was in elementary school.
- That really hurt me. - It hurt you.
It's like a trauma.
I got so upset and angry that I told her to just kill me.
I said that I didn't want to live like this.
(He ended up saying he didn't want to live like this.)
I told her that if she doesn't need me in her life...
to just kill me. To end everything.
My dad had to stop me from hurting myself.
(It's a sad memory for the whole family.)
It seems like your son is bearing a lot of grudges.
You admitted to that too.
We received therapy because of that.
- I was told to nag less. - Do you nag less these days?
Yes. I make a tremendous amount of effort.
She does make an effort,
but she has lived that way for over 50 years.
She can't change overnight.
Just like people don't change from one therapy session.
The psychiatrist made us set rules for each other.
We came up with four rules.
I asked my mom to stop talking about the past...
and repeating herself.
She asked me to refrain from kicking things out of anger...
and to wash myself every day.
Even when I get angry,
I really try not to express it violently.
However, my mom still brings up the past...
when we have an argument.
It made me angry,
and it resulted in that particular incident.
He says you broke the rules first.
Is he lying? Did your son break the rules first?
He always says that.
I didn't break the rules for no reason.
- Did he break the rules? - He didn't wash himself.
That's right.
- He didn't wash up. - You agreed to wash up.
You still slam your door shut.
- That was... - You broke a door recently too.
Well, you came close to breaking it.
Did he do that when you didn't say anything?
I did say a few things, but...
This won't get us anywhere.
- This will only hurt your feelings. - That's right.
Instead of talking about this,
Tell us when you found your son...
the most lovely.
Our entire family went abroad for the first time.
All four of us went on a trip to Thailand.
Since my husband and I are old,
he fretted over us.
I remember that.
- He is a good son. - When did you find your mom...
the most lovely?
My workplace doesn't provide lunch.
Even when we fight, she makes me a packed lunch...
because she wants me to eat my meals.
It makes me thankful.
- That's a big deal. - I know.
(It's a very big deal, indeed.)
In that case,
why don't we practice?
They say that happiness requires practice.
Practice having a happy conversation.
Talk to your son.
How do you call him?
My wonderful son.
You should change the way you address him.
Call him.
(Now we remember.)
My wonderful son, Chang Dae.
It sounds like you are being sarcastic.
- "My wonderful son." - "You are wonderful all right!"
- He has a name. - That's right.
- Call him by his name. - That's right.
Chang Dae, I am thankful...
for your existence.
I am sorry that I gave you emotional scars.
Your mom apologized.
Look at your mom.
(Awkward silence falls.)
Am I your mom?
- Why are you looking at me? - You need to use kind words.
- That's right. - Listen.
You said your mom can't change...
since she lived that way for over 50 years.
- However, that's inaccurate. - That's right.
You can change first.
You have no intention to change,
yet you keep reiterating that your mom needs to change.
You won't be able to go home at this rate.
How could a family be so awkward?
You should do this.
When he leaves one bite,
say, "You left one bite for me."
- That's right. - That's right.
"Do you want me to gain weight?"
You could say that instead.
Let's try it. He left one bite.
"You left one bite for me. Thank you. I will enjoy it."
You have no sense of humor.
When he leaves one bite, say, "I gave you too much food."
"I will give you less food the next time."
Then continue to decrease the amount of food you give him.
Eventually, he'll be so hungry and eat everything.
(It's a refreshing suggestion.)
He will use condiments...
to finish his food.
He will finish his food.
Chang Dae, let's say I am your mom.
You should wash up.
(What will he say?)
Okay. I will wash up.
- That's good. - Just wash up.
Use that tone with her. Then you won't have a problem.
(You should start with something small.)
(He smiles at his mom.)
How would you feel if you son changes?
Say what you want to say to him.
I am thankful that I have you.
I love you.
Of course.
My goodness. You must have craved...
your mom's love.
Are you crying?
(Does he regret his past behaviors?)
(He is not crying.)
It would be perfect if he cries.
Pretend to cry so that we can use the shot.
- There you go. - That's good.
Let's start with Na Yeong.
I think it's a worry.
Both of you are in the wrong.
- That's right. - That's right.
- That's right. - Both of you are in the wrong.
It's a worry. Of course it is.
I think it's a worry without a question.
I also think it's a worry.
When I think about nagging, I think about Ki Hyun.
He nags a lot.
Ki Hyun nags a lot.
I now have know-how for nagging.
I give them a compliment first.
- You give a compliment first. - Yes.
- It's a good idea. - It can be something unrelated.
It's the carrot and stick approach.
The husband from the first worry...
should sing a song that suits this situation.
(Sing a song that suits this situation.)
Don't do that.
Which song do you want to sing...
to this young man?
(My dear)
(Don't worry about a thing)
Don't worry about a thing.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Chang Dae.
I have something to say before we wrap this up.
There is something you should never do.
No matter the situation, you shouldn't hit your parents.
- If you do that, - You shouldn't do that.
I will pick you up and throw you.
I will throw you outside the Earth.
Promise me that, okay?
Fill up the basin all the way.
Let's see how many votes the worry got.
"Hulk in the Family".
(The result)
Did it get over 100 votes?
(How many people related to the mother with an angry son?)
96 votes.
"Weird Romance".
Hello.
- Hello. - Goodness.
I am a 14-year-old middle school student...
who is having a headache because of love.
"Gosh, I love this!"
"Gosh, I want a boyfriend!"
"I don't like this. Why are they breaking up?"
This person is my sister in ninth grade...
who is two years older than me.
She became this way because of romance comics.
"When I drop a book,"
"a prince will come and pick it up."
"Then we will fall in love at first sight..."
"and kiss with fireworks going off behind us."
(Screaming)
She lives in fantasy.
"This is an emergency. Hurry up and wake up."
"He is so handsome. He's is my type."
"It's 4am!"
"Go to bed."
I don't know what she is going to be when she grows up.
Please stop my sister.
(Please stop my sister.)
Let's meet the person who sent us the worry.
Please come on out.
(Whose worry involves a sister who loves romance comic?)
(Lee Ji Woo)
(Welcome.)
Please introduce yourself.
Hello, I am here because I am upset about my sister.
- I am Lee Ji Woo. - Lee Ji Woo.
How obsessed is your sister?
Ever since she was in seventh grade, she read romance novels...
I mean, romance comics.
You don't need to hit yourself.
- How cute! - When she comes home,
she reads romance comics on her phone...
without washing up.
On the weekdays,
she goes to bed around 3 or 4am.
She stays up...
to read romance comics.
On the weekends, she goes to bed around 6am...
and wakes up around 5 or 6pm.
- She gets enough sleep. - Does she eat?
She eats instant food.
She doesn't eat with her family.
She eats in her room.
She eats instant food...
- as she reads romance comics. - Yes.
Since Ki Young's daughter will reach this age soon,
she has a lot of interest in this matter.
- My eyebrows became furrowed. - The worry is now for her daughter.
Since when was your sister obsessed with romance comics?
- 7th grade. - 7th grade.
It started with "What's Wrong with Secretary Kim".
The drama was based on a web comic.
Didn't it have an age restriction?
- No, it didn't. - I see.
The drama had sexy scenes.
(Smiling)
(I think she knows about those.)
What does her obsession have to do with you?
She forces me to read those romance comics.
- She forces you to read them. - She wants you to read them too.
When there is a cringe-worthy scene, she hits me.
When there is a cringe-worthy scene, she hits you?
I bet she does this.
(My goodness.)
"They kissed!"
Does she do that?
When the plot takes a frustrating turn,
she picks a fight with me.
- She picks a fight with you. - She picks a fight with you?
That's what they say these days.
She picks a fight with you.
- She picks a fight with her? - She takes it out on me.
Why don't you tell your parents?
She says she will kill me if I do that.
(I will kill you if you do that.)
She told her sister that...
- she will kill her. - My goodness.
She uses those harsh words.
Let's meet her sister...
and ask her about this. Hello.
Hello, I am Lee Na Kyung, and I am 16 years old.
How did you become obsessed with romance comics?
How did it happen?
When I read those comics, I feel like the heroine.
- It makes my heart flutter. - The heroine.
You live in that fantasy.
When the heroine has a romantic moment with a man,
I feel like I am having a romantic moment with a man.
When they break up, I feel like it has happened to me.
I see.
It's an escape from reality.
How many romance comics have you read?
I have read about 500 of them.
- Can you tell us what you've read? - That's amazing.
"The King's Woman", "The Queen of the Era",
"Maid Sama" and "Between Us".
- What? - What?
(What's she saying?)
- "Between?" - Yes.
- "Between Us". - Like that.
Then, what is your standard of choosing a romance comic?
The male and female characters must be good looking.
They must be handsome and pretty.
No cheating and no dragging on.
If you were to choose the male and female characters...
between us, who would it be?
I say Shownu.
- Oh, my. - For the male character.
- How about the female character? - The female character.
(Who would be the female character?)
Me.
(Laughing)
(I'm the female character.)
(She's really submerged in it.)
(She was looking forward to it.)
You got selected.
You're really submerged in it.
She's so cute.
It's funny.
(I have to deal with that every day.)
You can enjoy it alone.
Why do you wake your sister up?
When something is exciting, I want to recommend her.
- You want to share it with her. - Yes, that's right.
I can't stand anything cheesy,
so I'm asking her to read it for me.
- Read it for you? - Read it for you?
What was it about that you couldn't even read it?
The girl caught a cold.
The boy feels so bad...
that he tells her to give it to him and kisses her.
(Choking up)
(Cheesy)
(They suddenly lose their hands and feet.)
- What? - It's so cheesy.
- What is that? That's ridiculous. - That's awesome.
Wait. But your sister's reading that for you.
Then does your sister...
- How do you do it? I'm curious. - express her emotions?
- Read it for us. - How do you read it?
What do you want to do? The girl or the boy?
- The boy. - The boy?
She must have played boys a lot.
Okay then. I'll play the girl.
- Go. - You forgot that it's winter,
and you caught a cold from playing outside. Did you take medicine?
I did.
(She loves it.)
Do you want me to make you feel better?
How?
Go closer.
(The boy goes closer.)
You recover when you give it to someone, so this is for the cold.
And they kiss.
(Time and space...)
(cringes.)
(My heart is about to explode.)
Goodness.
(She hates it.)
This wasn't good because of Tae Gyun.
I'll make it even cheesier. Why don't you read that line, Shownu?
- Shownu will read it. - I have two.
- It's intense. - Wait.
Here. Then Ho Young can play the girl.
- Is that okay? - Okay.
Ki Hyun was getting ready. What does that make of her?
- He has to go to restroom. - He needs to use the restroom.
Close the door.
(Laughing)
You need to sneeze.
- Do you want to feel better? - Oh, my.
How?
You recover when you give it to someone, so this is for the cold.
- They kiss. - They kiss.
No, stop joking. Kiss.
"Stop joking."
Keep going.
(Dong Yeob's mean.)
She can't distinguish between the reality and fantasy.
- Fantasy? - She can't distinguish them?
- No. - It seems...
that she can't distinguish between the two. You saw it.
She said she'll play the girl.
What about Na Yeong?
That's when I noticed that she's really into it.
They're married. How about me? I'm single.
(Laughing)
(Well...)
(She's eliminated.)
Ever since she started reading comic, she bluffs a lot.
- Give me an example. - Give me an example.
She says she's the prettiest in the world.
- Did she say that to you? - Yes.
"I'm the prettiest in the world."
Then I ask if she has lost her mind.
She wants a boy to ask her out...
in the midst of fireworks and have him kiss her.
When I think of her kissing a boy,
I feel bad for him.
(This is the truth.)
You don't feel bad for your sister?
Her sister's living in fantasy, and she's down to earth.
She even imagined it.
Do you really imagine becoming a girl in the comic...
like your sister said?
If I drop a pencil case, my hand and the boy's hand touch...
as he picks it up for me, and we fall in love.
Or when I'm about to fall down, he grabs me by the waist.
(The guy hugs her as he grabs her by the waist.)
How do you want to meet him?
Like destiny.
Give me an example.
- Like a miracle? - How does that work?
Like a miracle where you suddenly become a good singer?
(Meanwhile, he nods.)
For example, we join the same club.
We fight at first,
then we fall in love.
It's very detailed.
- The scenario is very detailed. - Yes, it is.
But you stay up all night reading comics,
and that it affects your studies.
Right. Don't you think that's wrong?
I went to school after staying up all night a few times.
I sleep during class.
I used to get an average of 80 in seventh grade,
but now that I'm in 9th grade, it went down to 60s.
- It went down a lot. - It went down a lot.
- To be the girl character, - She needs to grow up.
you need to go to bed early and get taller.
Male characters like girls who go to bed early.
- Really? - Really?
"Really?"
(I want Prince Charming to like me.)
What do you say, Shownu?
She needs to go to sleep at 10pm latest.
- Right. She's still in school. - I'll go to bed early from now on.
- You tell her what to do. - She's cute.
- Right. - She's cute.
If it affects your grades,
I think you should read less, what do you think?
- There's something good about it. - What?
I'm going to learn Chinese.
- Why Chinese? - Why Chinese?
I started watching Chinese drama.
Wang He Di, Hu Yi Tian...
- and Darren Wang are handsome. - Oh, Darren Wang.
- In order to meet them? - Yes.
In a Japanese animation called "Maid Sama"...
- "Maid Sama"? - Yes.
The heroine is a maid.
So I want to try a maid job in Japan.
(What?)
- Oh, my. - Goodness.
- Do you even know what maids do? - Do you even know?
They're just a server.
- It's a little different. - That's not exactly wrong.
Because the maid is depicted beautifully.
I know.
It's literally fantasy.
She wants my brother, Woo Chan,
to be a celebrity.
- Him? - Yes.
Oh, your brother?
So she can marry a Chinese man.
- Hi. - Hi.
Hello.
I'm seven years old, and my name is Lee Woo Chan.
- Woo Chan. - He's my daughter's age.
Did you know your sister wants you to be a star?
Yes.
What do you think? Do you think it'd work?
No.
He's adorable.
He sighs as he responds.
- You don't want to? - No.
- What do you want to be then? - What do you want to be?
A fisherman.
A fisherman?
- A fisherman? - He wants to be a fisherman.
- I've never heard that before. - Don't you want to find out why?
I want to catch fish and eat it.
Oh, he wants to catch delicious fish and eat it.
His final dream is to become Lee Yeong Ja.
(I don't want to be a celebrity.)
Does your sister give you a hard time?
I poured her milk last time.
How could you tell a seven-year-old to pour you milk?
How did you do it?
I did it, but I spilled a little.
- Oh, my. - I see.
What was your sister doing when you were pouring her milk?
She was reading a comic.
- A comic? - Right, a comic.
- Woo Chan, your answers are short. - Right.
Right.
It seems her parents are also here.
Were you aware that your oldest daughter was into comics?
Recently, when the entire family goes out for dinner,
she rarely joins us.
Even if she comes, she's mostly on her cellphone.
Honestly, it's not appropriate for me to enter her room...
and see what she's doing when she's all grown up.
- That's not appropriate. - No.
One time, I hid the Wi-Fi device at home.
- "Hid?" - Yes.
- He hid it. - I hid it once. I also...
got her 2G phone, so she would spend less time on her phone.
I thought the hours she spends on her phone was the problem.
I never knew she was into comics.
- They had no idea. - I see.
Don't you think it'd get better now that your parents know?
There's another problem.
(There's another problem my parents aren't aware of.)
- What is it? - At home,
- I do all the chores. - What?
My brother goes to academy.
His shuttle bus comes to my house,
- To pick him up? - but my sister never went out once.
When your parents come home late, who takes care of Woo Chan?
I take care of him.
What if your sister...
tries to kill you for saying all this?
(I'm going to watch you.)
My mom assigns us chores to do,
such as cleaning our rooms.
She says that she'll give me an allowance if I clean her room.
I do it, but she doesn't pay me.
How cheap.
- She made false promises. - Why did you do that?
I'm busy reading comics,
but my sister's free.
- So I tell her to do it. - Then she lies she did it.
She lies that she did it when you did it?
- Yes. - When she cooks,
it tastes pretty good.
I make her cook because I'm not good at cooking.
You should practice at home if you want to work as a maid in Japan.
- Na Yeong is right. - Of course.
How could she work as a maid?
Why didn't you tell her you didn't want to do it?
- Did you just do as she told you? - Yes.
I said I didn't want to do it,
but she threw a remote control at me.
And I got hit.
She used violence?
- She swore at me too. - Gosh.
She also poked my arm with her fingernail,
- and I bled. - Oh, dear.
How could she swear at you...
- when she likes romance comics? - Exactly.
Exactly. She dreams to be a female character in a romance comics,
- How could that happen? - but her behaviors are...
the opposite of such characters.
- That's right. - You're not like a princess at all.
But still, she's nice to you from time to time, right?
No. She's mean to me even outside of home.
- She's mean to you outside too? - Did you expect a different answer?
- When you asked her the question? - Tell us everything.
- Of course. - What answer did you expect?
- I meant to make her look better. - I see.
- No. She's never nice to me. - Really?
- Then... - This is surprising.
do you wish you had a different sister?
- Yes. - My gosh.
We go to the same school. When I said hi to her...
at school, she said...
She's getting emotional.
She ignored me and told me not to say hi to her.
- She told you not to say hi to her? - She told you not to say hi to her?
She told you not to say hi to her?
Their mom just...
glared at her oldest daughter.
She ignores me whenever I say hi to her too.
I said hi to her.
She says you ignored her.
- I didn't ignore her. - Why would she do that?
- You didn't? - I didn't.
- She didn't see you. - You ignored me at the cafeteria.
- I didn't. - You did.
Stop arguing!
They're so cute.
- They're cute. - They're funny.
- Did she do anything else? - Tell us everything.
She always compliments our little brother.
- She does? - But she's never complimented me.
Can you be more specific?
For example, when I finished cleaning the house,
- she said I just did my job. - She took it for granted.
It's your job?
Who told you that it's her job?
Since she's the second child,
I believe it's her job to do house chores.
(What did she just say?)
(How could she say that?)
She has a patriarchal point of view.
I'm a second child too.
- I bet you understand... - My brother was just like her.
You can't beat her when you argue with her, right?
- I can't. - Of course.
(He knows how she feels.)
I know how she feels.
Only a second child knows how it feels.
You could adore your sister too.
Why do you adore only your brother?
Since he's nine years younger than me...
- How much older are you than her? - I'm two years older than her.
My brother is cute, but she is gross.
- She's so mean. - That...
- Let's think about your parents. - Yes.
Your sister is younger than you.
Your parents have a bigger age gap with your sister, right?
You wouldn't mind if they love your sister more than you, right?
That's a totally different situation.
- She's so selfish. - She's so selfish.
Why? That's what you do to your siblings.
This won't work. Go to bed early and wake up early.
- Grow tall and butt heads with her. - Right.
- But she wakes me up. - Go to bed at 10pm.
Ask her a question, Shownu.
Both of your parents...
are busy working...
Isn't it too obvious that you're reading the script?
It's not that. Listen to me.
- A male character in comics... - He never looks ahead.
He always looks around while speaking.
- You see... - Yes.
Shouldn't you take care of your little sister...
- as the oldest child? - Don't look at her.
I think you should.
Yes. I'll take care of her from now on.
(Yes. I'll take care of her from now on.)
See? She's changed.
- Isn't it annoying to see this? - What are you doing now?
(Don't just say that.)
Is there anything else...
- that worries you? - What else are you worried about?
If she keeps reading romance comics,
she might become jobless who learned about dating from books.
- That's a curse. - Oh, no.
What else?
Since we don't go on a family trip or eat out often,
I'm afraid she might be confused between comics and old memories.
She might get confused because she doesn't have many memories.
- You know it's too much, right? - Yes.
What do you think you should do?
I guess I should read less comics.
- How many hours a day? - Five hours a day.
From 8pm to 1am.
(She'll read comics for five hours every day.)
Five hours are still too much.
You'll reduce the time to five hours?
You must have homework to do...
- Can you do all of it? - and prepare for exams.
I can do my homework at school.
And I gave up on studying as my grades are already bad.
(What should I do about you?)
Hang on. I'm having the same feeling I had before.
I feel tired and like I'm talking to a wall.
- Didn't we hear a story like this? - Yes, we did.
It feels like I'm talking to a wall.
It's not bad to read romance comics...
or imagine romance.
But now is the time for her to develop realistic abilities...
to make her dreams come true in the future.
So I hope that my lovely oldest daughter...
will spend some time on self-improvement.
And for my lovely second daughter,
I'll try to lift the burdens from her shoulders.
- Do your work before reading it. - Okay.
Then you'll meet someone like a male character in comics.
- He's right. - Exactly.
(Then you'll meet a cool guy like a male character in comics.)
Let's start with Ki Hyun. What do you think?
If you're just a little bit nicer to your sister,
it would mean a lot to her.
I want you to be nice to your sister.
It's good to enjoy reading it, but I hope you keep it moderate.
Having a fantasy isn't a problem.
But you're causing your sister harm...
- just to enjoy your hobby. - Exactly.
I definitely think it's a worry.
If they could sort it out by themselves,
they'll have a healthy bond with each other...
- Obviously, they couldn't do it. - That's why they're here.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Tell your sister how you'll change.
Ji Woo, let's have a good life.
(Scared)
Make a promise to her. Don't be ambiguous.
- Let's get along well. Goodbye. - Good.
- Compliment Ji Woo a lot too. - You shouldn't tell her off...
saying, "How dare you told that?"
You shouldn't do that. You won't, right?
- I won't do that. - Good.
Please show us the result.
(The result)
(The last digit is four.)
- It's over 100. - Really?
The current winner got 164 votes.
She got 124 votes.
(124 votes)
As a result, this week's winner is "Don't Even Dream of It".
The winner will receive cash prize. Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you!
(Hello will continue to counsel you.)
("Shoot Out" by Monsta X)